Setting Boundaries with Your Clients

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Nobody likes a list of rules. Whether they’re do’s or don'ts. But when it comes to boundary expectations with clients, it’s best to get in the habit of establishing things early. And if necessary going over them often. Many clients are reaching out to you in time of great need. Taking the time to set boundaries will give you and your clients the structure to build a respectful, consistent, and trusted relationship.

Things to DO until they become second nature.

  • Remember: the focus of the therapy you’re providing is solely on the client and their progress.
  • Any sessions whether in person or via video should take place in a therapist’s office setting; if you are in a home make sure there is no overlap between your office and personal living space.
  • Set limits on personal information you disclose to a client
  • Maintain transparency about your professional beliefs and practices if a client asks about them.
  • Always maintain confidentiality about anything discussed in a therapy session
  • If ever the need to consult with another therapist disclose that to the client
  • Discuss client progress and revisit their identified goal(s) regularly.
  • Stay consistent with appointment times.
  • Stay consistent with submitting claims/billing.

Real world lessons you should certainly avoid:

  • Discussing any other client’s experiences or sessions. 
  • Responding to your phone in any way during sessions.
  • Eating during a session.
  • Allowing any client to perform a service for you (house sitting, baby sitting, etc.)
  • Recommending your client to a spouse or family member for other services.
  • Set up clients on dates/meetings with others for social interaction
  • Provide therapy to a client who is also a student in a course you’re teaching.
  • Discussing potential shared business opportunities with a client.

Here are some other great resources about drawing lines, and being sure not to cross them. 

Rewire article: What Boundaries Should you have with your Therapist?

HPSO article:  Clients who Cross the Line article:  Boundaries across borders

Setting boundaries worksheet

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